Сімейні цінності або чим відрізняється тато від мами?

Отже, функція тата продовження роду виконана – в будинку з’явився крихітний, періодично кричущий, клубочок щастя. Син або дочка. З народженням дитини, для чоловіків, тат, неймовірно важливо усвідомити – головне, прийняти той чудовий факт, що сім’я поповнилася, як мінімум, ще однією людиною і життя вже не буде таким, як раніше.

Семейные ценности или чем отличается папа от мамы?

Давайте визначимося, яка ваша роль у догляді за дитиною, в її вихованні, розвитку. Як часто і багато ви приділяєте часу своєму сину або доні? Яка ваша частка участі в житті маленької людинки? Давайте разом передбачив стереотипи, що склалися, уникнемо прикрих помилок, на виправлення яких згодом можуть піти роки дорогоцінного часу – відрізок життя з моменту народження і до моменту з умовною назвою «Ось ти і вилетів / ла з гнізда …».

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Найперше і найважливіше, що потрібно засвоїти очманілим від радості татам: ви приймаєте таку ж участь у догляді та вихованні, як і мама! Єдина фізіологічна відмінність – ви позбавлені можливості грудного вигодовування. Усе! На цьому відмінності тато / мама починаються і закінчуються.

Ви не в змозі замінити підгузник або переповити дитину? Не можете заспокоїти / заколисати на своїх сильних і одночасно таких ніжних чоловічих руках малюка!? Не прочитаєте разом з улюбленим чадом цікаву дитячу книжку? Не зумієте познайомити дитину з лабіринтами, таємницями і загадковими місцями парку в вашому районі? Задайте собі всі ці питання і чесно відповідайте на них. Скільки всього «ні» у вас вийшло? Жодного?

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І це я вже не кажу про спільну риболовлю, хатні клопоти, чудовою нагодою провести час за виробами, будь то пластилін, кольорові олівці, клапті тканини, деревинки, залізяки, глина …. Список практично нескінченний. Користуйтеся прекрасним даром, яким так щедро нагородило вас життя – можливістю прямої участі в житті вашої дитини!

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Не втрачайте ні хвилини дорогоцінного часу, адже кожен прожитий день обміну і поверненню не підлягає. Краще не увімкніть зайвий раз телевізор, відкладіть газету, скоротіть кількість соціальних мереж у всесвітній павутині. І не вірте нікому, що прерогатива догляду за дитиною і виховання за мамами!

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Багатозначно усміхніться у відповідь тому, хто буде розповідати, як функції тата обмежуються лише фінансовим забезпеченням сім’ї. Адже ви-то знаєте, що це не так. Ви знаєте, що ви можете не гірше (а часто навіть краще) мами. Ви вже відчули ці чарівні хвилини, проведені в турботах про вашу дитину, пізнали неймовірні тактильні, емоційні відчуття. Вам вже знайоме відчуття втоми від дитячих турбот, так невимовно приємне, що межує з ейфорією від відмінно виконаної, улюбленої справи всього вашого життя.

Усміхніться і поспівчувайте тому, чия роль в житті дитини обмежилася лише зароблянням грошей, виносом коляски на вулицю і рідкісними суворими і нудними нотаціями в питаннях виховання. Тому що ви вже пізнали це велике таїнство тато – дитина, або готові його пізнати.

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Але спочатку все-таки розділіть з мамою турботи по догляду за вашим малюком 

• Якщо дитина на штучному вигодовуванні – готуйте суміші і годуйте. Давайте водичку. Слідкуйте за часом годування і температурою харчування.

• Міняйте підгузки або пелюшки в міру необхідності.

• Грайте з дитиною. Розмовляйте з нею. Повірте, вона вас прекрасно розуміє. Заспівайте, розкажіть вірш. Дайте малюку вхопитися за ваш мізинець і підтягнутися на ньому міцніючими дитячими ручками.

• При необхідності покладіть спати, заколисуючи на руках. Нехай дитина відчує вашу спокійну, впевнену силу, відчує захищеність і спокій. Це дуже корисно для її нервової системи, яка формується.

• Візьміть на себе нічні турботи. Перед сном продумайте і підготуйте все, що може знадобитися вночі: харчування, воду, змінні підгузники, хустку або серветки і т.д. Адже саме чоловіки вміють все ретельно планувати. Все повинно бути під рукою в потрібній кількості. А мама нехай поспить зайву годинку, і вранці ви будете винагороджені посмішкою і поцілунком подяки.

• Якщо дитина на грудному вигодовуванні , ви передаєте його мамі тільки на момент годування. Далі знову ваші турботи. Мамі погодувати і відпочивати.

Ви боїтеся доторкнутися до дитини. Серйозно? Відкиньте сумніви! І повірте, ви будете винагороджені. Головне – починайте!

 

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