Твоя дитина закохалася: як не злякати перше почуття.

Практично всі мами з ностальгією згадують романтичне перше кохання. Проте чи завжди ми готові до того, що наші діти, які зовсім недавно були крихітками, зіткнуться з тими ж емоціями?

ТИПОВІ ДІВЧАТА в TELEGRAM – не пропусти найцікавіше

Часто буває, що дитина закохується по-справжньому ще до настання підліткового віку. Тому якщо ти помітила, що син або дочка із захопленням говорить про когось із однолітків, варто задуматися, як правильно поводитися, щоб не зруйнувати крихке почуття, яке тільки почало зароджуватися.

Як реагувати на перше кохання: основні правила для мами

Дитяче кохання – це боязкість і сором’язливість, це страх не сподобатися і бути відкинутим, це бажання бути поруч із об’єктом любові. Словом, за силою і насиченістю переживань це почуття мало чим відрізняється від дорослого.

Саме в цей момент для дитини дуже важливі розуміння і підтримка мами: мінливий гормональний фон у підлітків і нестабільний психічний стан можуть призвести до непоправних наслідків.

Давай поговоримо про те, як реагувати на перше кохання. Якщо ти запідозрила, що це саме воно, доречно дотримуватися такої тактики поведінки:

  1. Не приставай відразу із запитаннями. Підліток, та й дитина молодшого віку, навряд чи може чітко сформулювати словесно, що він відчуває до Саші або Ані. Крім того, вона може боятися осуду батьків. Ідеальний варіант – подивитися який-небудь зворушливий фільм на цю тему (наприклад, знаменитий «Вам і не снилося»), почитати разом книжку або цікаву статтю про кохання. Якщо юний закоханий (-а) побачать твоє доброзичливе ставлення, їм буде простіше розкритися.
  2. Забудь про висміювання. Тобі здається, що це все несерйозно і таких «почуттів» буде ще мільйон? Це говорити точно не треба. Звичайно ж, перше кохання у дитини навряд чи триватиме все життя, але саме зараз для неї немає нікого важливішого за конкретного хлопчика чи дівчинку. Дитина зі значно більшою вдячністю прийме твою допомогу, яка може виражатися рішенням дозволяти юним Ромео і Джульєтті гуляти разом або ходити один до одного в гості.
  3. Завжди будь поруч. Як і у дорослих стосунках, сварки неминучі, а тому твоїй маленькій дорослій дитині обов’язково знадобиться плече, на якому можна поплакати.
    ​Мама втішає доньку-підлітка
  4. Не ревнуй. Батьки – особливі люди в житті маленької людини, і це місце ніколи ніхто не займе. Так що не шукай недоліки і не критикуй обранця дитини, щоб не спровокувати сильну образу.
  5. Обговорюй цю тему делікатно. Навіть якщо тобі хочеться застерегти підлітка від небажаної вагітності, венеричних захворювань або асоціальних однолітків, щира розмова виявиться ефективнішою за повчальний тон і моралі.

Наші вже не малюки ще дуже вразливі перед шквалом емоцій. Щиро бажаємо навіть у цей складний період зберегти теплі дружні стосунки: іноді для цього достатньо просто ненав’язливо запропонувати допомогу, якщо вона знадобиться.

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